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Have you ever lost interest in, well... everything?
Sorta' where I'm at. Got a real nice SKS I should disassemble and clean, but can't get motivated. At all. Same with some relatively new history books: lots of time to read them, but they just sit on the shelf.
I should go to the gym and belong to a good one, but am just not into it. Plenty of work to do in the home garden, but I do some and then quit. New quarter at UCLA coming in another month and I have a rare opportunity to take a language class I've waited two years for, but for whatever reason I just don't feel too fired up anymore. Lots of sweet and attractive females from 22-44 around who would like some or more of my time, but for some reason I'm just not into it. Just tired all the time, mainly. I seem to feel best just hanging around the house, doing little to nothing, enjoying the quiet and sleeping. I don't sleep much during the work week, just on the weekends, pretty much. Not sure why. On a positive note, work at the school is fun again, now that our MEChA fanatic/La Raza-oriented principal has been fired. He was an imbecile. Anyone had phases like this, or are these things symptomatic of a possible health problem? I guess I could see a doctor but anymore making an appointment and waiting around for them is a pain in the bum, and who needs the hassle? I guess I can't even get motivated for that. Sound familiar to anyone, or am I f'ed up? |
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Sounds like mild depression. Seen a doctor?
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Yeah, I'm in a phase like that right now. I hate it. I work a lot of long hours, and it never ends. I think I'm just plain burning out.
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yep, going through something similar.
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This happens to everyone once in a while.....don't bother with doctor visit....next thing you know you'll be on some silly mind altering drug.
Just get through your vegatative funk....don't do anyting for a while...just get by....it will pass. You'll be back to your old self in a few weeks. If it lasts for more than 1 month...start to reboot yourself....life is pretty much what you make of it. Sometimes you just need to rest yourself and start fresh again. Pick a brand new activity that you don't know jackshit about and jump into it.....this will give your mind something brand new to learn and do....make it a small hobby with an end goal.....like learn how to catch and clean pan fish.....or buy a cheap shortwave radio ....or repaid a small engine....fix something around the house....learn to sweat pipes together and make a plumbing repair.....repair your tile...build something....learn to can food or brew beer or make wine....just pick a little project you can learn something new on.... |
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When I told my doctor about it, he asked me if I wanted him to treat me for the problem. I declined. Pills aren't the solution. |
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You have collapse fatigue. I imagine all do to some extent. That's why it's more important than ever that you MAKE yourself go to that gym and clean that weapon and do everything else that you don't feel like doing. Sloth is evil. The things you aren't doing today you will be longing for soon enough when TSHTF. :fan:
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I've been going through the same thing lately... making sure I keep up on eating well and taking my nutritional supplements without fail helps.
It's just the blues brought on by mild burnout. If you have the time, try to get out and do something that takes some risk and is new. The GF and I went with some friends to a "clothing-optional" beach for the first time a couple of weeks ago. Had a blast, and the regulars there were very friendly and cool. It was an invigorating experience that got me out of the funk that was setting in on me. Gotta get out of the rut... it takes less effort than you might think. |
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I know how ya feel my brother ....
Tomorrow I am going to dig out a stump that is in the way of progress ( it is going to be the worst day of that stumps life ) & then I will feel much better :RockOn: Time to kick ass & take names .....you will feel a whole lot better ....... ohhhhhhhh BTW .......a hot lady helps toooooooo:yes: remember less ............is more..........:bull-smile::23_30_104: |
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some xanax or prozac oh to fix you right up.:sarc:
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Depression funk, imo. Do something good for someone who needs help. Get some sunshine. Go for a long walk in an unfamiliar place. Eat a bunch of fresh fruit and veggies. Try to think/concentrate on the positive things in your life. This too shall pass. :yippee:
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Probably just a virus, eat more fish and vege. Take vitamins if necessary. Sometimes you just need rest, so listen to your body.
I had less than 2.5 hours sleep last night due to working late... then got up at 6am to go to work again... I hate doing that sort of thing, as I'm one of those people that needs 8 - 8.5 hours sleep a night. If I consistently get little sleep or disturbed sleep, I get grumpy, then I get .. well you get the picture... Otherwise, you have to tell your brain that it's being stupid, when it tries to de-motivate you, and just power through it. When you collapse of exhaustion, it's your body's way of telling you to take a rest or die. :) |
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You are describing classic depression.
The way out is to concsiously, intentionally CHANGE your regime. If you smoke a lot of weed, STOP. If you don't... Maybe try a toke, if it is legal in your domain. If you dick around on the internet all the time, DO something else for a change. Go for a long walk, play with a dog.... Sit in the park, talk to a stranger, play a game of chess.... Basicly, the operative theme is to break out of the rut, change your viewpoint, act like some one else, and thus find the other side of yourself. Best of luck to you. |
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Alvin Toffler hit it right on the head in 1970. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Future_Shock Sound famiiar? The other part of this is that you will Literally have to re-create yourself multiple times During your lifetime. But this is not new news. scyth |
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Best way to get out of a funk is to volunteer your time helping folks less fortunate than yourself.
Try a nursing home, or maybe there's a program to drive lunches to shut-ins? Volunteer at an old folks home... I just had an old friend of 30 years drop by. He had a stroke 4 years ago. It gave me and the wife pause to be thankful we can do what we can do. He talks - it was a right brain stroke - labored, but intelligible. He walks with a cane. His left leg is in a prosthesis to keep his ankle from bending lest he miss-step and break that ankle - which would incapacitate him. He drives an automatic with a bar that allows him to use the turn signal with his right hand. His left arm is quite useless. Everything he does takes longer. He was a fabulous stringed harp player.... |
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Well when your worried about the world coming to an end those things shouldn't interest you at all.
It's gonna be OK. Of course you'll have a thousand people tell you that you'll be bleeding from the eyeballs if you don't heed their advice. Good luck. |
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You are letting yourself drift into a depression Hive. Don't do it. You control that. Take a weekend at the mountains or the ocean. Listen to a stream or the surf. Whatever makes you peaceful. Take little with you and leave your mind at home. Just be. Soak it in. When you get back, you will have a new perspective. It's important that you don't overload on all the distractions. Get back and decide what you can do something about and what you can't. Then get some things done that affect your life, one at a time. Have a good week of problem solving. It doesn't have to be a lot, just progress. Once you have a couple/few things done, find one of those 22-24 year olds and have a one night stand. Take her to breakfast in the morning on her way home. When I have done this, I would pick a nice breakfast place in her neck of the woods and encourage her to order something she will really enjoy. You know, in case it happens again. :biggrin: EDIT Oh, and make sure you get that gun cleaned as one of the items when you get back. |
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Careful sleeping too much, if it progresses further you'll could become one of "them".
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Time for a vacation Hive.
This too shall pass. |
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Thanks for the input, it's appreciated. I was a little surprised to learn that some of my peers are going through this type of phase, too. I'm comforted to discover that I am not alone.
All of this may indeed be collapse fatigue, or burnout, or lack of rest. Not sure. I put in for a weekend off from the 2nd job so I can escape as per the above suggestions, perhaps to Santa Barbara or somewhere else along the central coast. I need to plan. Meanwhile, I am drinking V8 (yuck!) to up the veggie intake, will get some vitamins, and am reconsidering the Fall Quarter school plans. I may just leave all that academic pressure for some other year. Passing up an opportunity I've waited a few years for is a bummer, but I'm starting to see that it may be for the best. I need to think about it a little more, though. A tough call... My loss of romantic interest in females may be a by-product of the divorce, which is dragging into year two with no end in sight. The whole process serves as a sort of buzz-kill where ladies are concerned, you know? A disincentive to adventures in nakedness, kind of. Anyway... |
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Pharmaceuticals aren't necessarily bad. Mind you, most of the folks who have made them permanent additions don't need to, but a short course of an antidepressant might help. Don't let them put you on the latest wonder pill; find something that has been tested on millions of Americans and has proven itself.
There are a lot of good suggestions here--I'm not dismissing them. But sometimes a little more exercise, or volunteering, or whatever can't be done. Ruprick's idea of just riding it out is a good one, if it doesn't go on too long or get worse. And this site being what it is, there are a lot who have opted to go alternative routes with varying degrees of success. But don't be afraid to going down the prescription route, if nothing else brings you through. |
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OK, **** the Mayans! This dull drum period we are all experiencing is like pain +.
About a year ago, or when the markets became officially disrupted most of us went into a void of WTF just happened? So we are grasping for the very straws that we predicted would disappear. Holy green ghosts shaggy! Everyone has become a zombie. We are acting as if nothing happened when everything has ****ing happened. We use facebook when we know its a fed owned site. We shop at the mall when we have no money to buy anything. We watch the news for some semblance of entertainment and confirmation. We look at girls and see their utter fakeness and we want more. Unfortunately there is no more. We are in a holding pattern. Waiting. There is nothing worse than living in western society and having to wait for something. What do I do to pass the time? Wouldn't you like to know. Cheers. |
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You go to a doctor and get a diagnoses of depression and you will not have to worry about cleaning any guns for long, you will not be aloud to own them.
Get off your lazy ass and do something productive. You got plenty to do and you will feel much better about everything when they start to get done. You also may think about getting a break from all these gloom and doom bozos here on GIM, a man can only absorb so much creosote before it manifest into a carcinogen in the body. Take a break or just read the happy and informative stuff. Things around here can get you down and nothing is worse than the constant bickering from trolls that you cannot possibly change an opinion of. You want to see how polluted you are? Try and lay down and think of nothing. When you can't do that for hours you will then realize how polluted your mind has become from toxins. Skip it man. My advice, don't forget to live. :s1: |
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Clinical depression,
Get out before you slide too far down the funnel Hive me old mate. Many more people suffer depression, if only they knew. Depression is the most insidious illness going. I would say, that as an estimate, 95% of all mental basket cases, denied that anything was wrong. At least you are blessed with being a honest one, and have recognised immediately that something is not quite right, and that things have changed that you feel unhappy about. You are one of the courageous ones. Give yourself a BIG pat on the head for being honest with yourself. I suffered it once, and it was one of the worst episodes of my life. The more I held onto what was wrong with me, and beating myself up in consequence, the worst it got. I attempted to try and think my way out of the thing, and it just got worse, and life got gloomier. Eventually, I went to my GP, and he was surprised to see me. He thought I had died because I hadn't been to see him for such a long time. The last diagnoses that I had expected from the Doc's analysis, was depression. Depression is a lot more complex than a simple mind-over-matter-attitude, when depression becomes pathological. Depression is about a biochemical change in the bodily functions. And the first function that suffers throughout this change, is a 'healthy' hormonal activity. Serotonin is the happy hormone in men. Serotonin lights a man's fire. Dark choc is laced with it. The trouble is, the BGL/BSL readings. There are a myriad of compensatory measures for depression, - as both our society, and economic outlook has proved. A rampant rise in crime, obesity, greed, gambling, drugs, suicide,type 2 diabetes, and the like. Such people believe that nothing is amiss. So OK, lets recap. You say you have 22-44 year old women chasing you but are disinterested. It is hardly surprising given the fact that your libido is as flat as the floor, so expressing yourself sexually is out of the question. You have also stated that you prefer to lounge around and sleep. There are jobs to do, but you can't be arsed to do them. Again, suggesting that you get off your backside, is only going to pile on the guilty feeling you are currently experiencing about yourself. So forget about forcing in doing something active. More guilt. More coals These point in the direction that you are currently going through a transition stage that is contradictory. A readjustment process that is unfamiliar to your awareness. Be kind to yourself. Whatever you do, be kind to who you are. I am only able to offer you a perspective from my own personal experiences. You can either: 1. Consciously go with the flow and accept the adage that they way things are is the way things are, in the hope that life gets better through unconditional acceptance. OR 2. You did say that (open quote)"On a positive note, work at the school is fun again, now that our MEChA fanatic/La Raza-oriented principal has been fired. He was an imbecile."(closed quote). Maybe he was an imbecile, however, not too much of one it appears, in which to devastate your personality. I do hope this post help you Hive. You contribute well to this forum. My kindest thoughts. SH |
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Or, St John's Wort.
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